Betsy Nordlander, LCSW

I am a New York State licensed Psychotherapist experienced in working with a broad range of issues including depression, anxiety, questions of identity, loss and grief, family and relationship struggles, LGBTQIA+ issues, complex life transitions, and trauma ranging from the personal to systemic.

I approach therapy as a collaborative exploration of an individual’s lived experiences, the meanings they make out of these experiences, and the relationships they cultivate with self and others in the context of these experiences and meaning-making. In therapy together we slow these conscious and lesser conscious processes down to better understand what might be happening, where people may be stuck in self-limiting narratives or patterns, where resilience, joy, and strength can be recognized, and where growth and change are possible.

People may seek out therapy because they feel anxious, sad, overwhelmed, unable to identify and articulate their wants and needs, or simply because they want to better understand themselves and live more intentionally.  Whatever your reasons for exploring therapy may be, you are likely curious about your own potential for growth and change. I have tremendous respect for all of those I work with for showing up for themselves to explore this potential that we all possess.

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To meaningfully engage in therapy people need first and foremost to feel safe, seen, and valued, which are key functions of the therapeutic relationship. I bring warmth, deep listening openness, honesty, insight, cultural sensitivity and humility, and a spirit of collaboration, authenticity, and humor to my work with both adolescents and adults. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental environment where the vulnerability that precipitates deeper levels of understanding and growth is encouraged and met with a sense of wonder, respect, and curiosity.

Please be in touch if you have questions about my services and/or if you would like to set up a complimentary 30-minute consultation to explore working together.

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About me


I am a graduate of Hunter College’s Silberman School of Social Work and have completed advanced post-graduate training at the Stephen A. Mitchell Center for Relational Studies.

I am psychodynamically oriented in my approach and borrow heavily from relational theory, mindfulness and somatic therapy. I am trained in and integrate when appropriate various other modalities including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy (TF-CBT).

And while I am not currently teaching, I am a 200 hour Yoga Alliance Certified yoga teacher and see many parallels between showing up for a yoga practice and showing up to take part in psychotherapy; both invite one to be engaged, honest, courageous, playful, and open to the unknown.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long are individual sessions and how often do they occur?

Sessions are 50 minutes and typically occur once a week.

Do you accept insurance?

I am an out-of-network provider but will gladly assist in submitting claims for out-of-network benefits. Most insurance companies will cover some or all of the cost of psychotherapy. Contact your insurance provider to get the details on out-of-network coverage.

Where are you located and do you offer in-person and/or teletherapy services?

I am currently working remotely on a secure Zoom platform as the Covid-19 pandemic continues.  I have an office located in Williamsburg, Brooklyn where I may resume seeing people in-person in the future.